My view at breakfast from the hotel was lovely <3 |
After breakfast, I walked back to Yung Shue Wan village as I saw a church there yesterday. I was one of about 18 folks in attendance, however the service was in Chinese and English. |
The service spoke straight to my heart. The pastor even called on me at one point. The Chinese love their 'lectures' and this was more like an educational lecture, with the pastor 'teaching'. He started by asking three questions, to which his congregants furiously took notes and were searching their Bibles. His message then said the following...
When our children are young, we take our time with them very seriously, to love them and to teach them discipline. When they go to primary school, our time with them is measured in hours. When our children go to secondary school, our time with them is measured in minutes. When our children go to university, our time with them is measured in seconds. As adults, our time spent with them may be only a few days a year.
And that is when my tears flowed.
He spoke directly to this empty nesting momma's hurting heart.
I was trying to squelch my tears, and he called on me and asked when was the last time I spoke with my mother? It had been less than two days before, when I arrived in Hong Kong and had a phone with free international calling in my motel. (whew! I don't know what happens if you give the 'wrong' answer in a Chinese Christian Church, and I didn't want to find out, lol.) He then went on to say, it is very important to know what is happening with our aging parents and our grown children. Our limited time with them should not be 'spent in quarrel'.
How true that is...
I was glad I had wandered in to church that day. His message, though in broken English, was heard loud and clear, and I felt it was meant for me. The homesick struggle has been real since I got back to China last month, and I have just been in a funk something awful. I felt like He 'gets me' and the words spoken in that sermon were the feelings I had been dealing with for the last six weeks but I only had tears. He understood my hurt, and sadness, and loneliness. Somehow, though, the tears in that church, on that Sunday morning on Lamma Island, felt different. They felt like cleansing tears. I swear I felt the veil of sadness and loneliness lifting. When I stepped out of the church and into this little island village, I no longer felt sad or sorry for myself. I felt ok for the first time in quite some time. I was happy to be right where I was in that moment. I was alone, but not lonely. I was ready to relish in exploring this island and enjoying my time there. I felt healed.
He meets you right where you are...even in a tiny church, on a tiny island in Hong Kong.
Life is good.
I walked back to my boutique hotel at the beach, changed into my bikini and grabbed my book :) |
They built a sweet sand castle, or sand sculpture. I thought it looked very beautiful and 'artsy'. The kids were too shy for me to take their picture. |
A little later, I got hungry for a snack... |
...and I enjoyed my first ear of corn here in Asia. It wasn't Indiana sweet corn slathered in butter, but at least it didn't taste like field corn- which is how it usually tastes. |
These girls were trying to use the timer on their camera to get a 'jump shot' in the water. After a few misses, I offered to take their photo. They were adorable. |
Then they offered to take mine :) |
By about 3pm, it was beginning to get cloudy, so I decided to hike to the other end of Lamma Island. It was at least an hour's walk away- up and down hills. |
It was very jungle-y and the air smelled so green and fresh! |
I passed a wee little waterfall, but I couldn't stick my head in it. |
Sometimes I would venture off the path, |
only to find another breathtaking view :-) |
After the last climb, Sok Kwu Wan came in to view. |
Beautiful |
Sok Kwu Wan is Lamma's Fisherfolk Village, home to the largest fish farming zone in Hong Kong. That is what you see pictured here- fish farms. |
As I turned toward home, I passed a 'doggy latrine.' I was hoping to find one for myself, but no such luck. I made fast tracks back to the beach! |
Oh, but there's another pretty view! |
And another... |
...and another. Even though there's a huge power plant around the bay from the beach, the sun was still pretty setting on the water :-) |
I enjoyed my free happy hour cocktail from the hotel, and watched the last of the setting sun. |
This 'dessert' was ah-mazing! It was a very thin flat bread, which bits of fresh mango, drizzled with sweetened condensed milk, and folded over several times and grilled. Oh. My. Goodness. Gracious. |
I reallllllly like Lamma Island!
And who should I happen to run in to on my way back to the hotel?
The secondary principal again, who happens to have a Guidance position open.
Geesh....
G'nite, y'all!
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